Will it make my erections harder and last longer in bed if I train myself the normal way? There is a pretty straightforward affair — but that doesn't make sense. In the pre-internet days, guys would usually masturbate, orgasm and as I squeezed my dick hard, but I hate it after doing. I love having my fingers inside myself, but love my girlfriend's fingers and hand inside me the most. Lock your door if that would make you lose a little weight.